3 years-ish before, I found a man online, we are going chat to gay guys call him “D”, on Myspace. It was pretty innocent, and he ended up being relatively HOT. And also by fairly, What i’m saying is SO.CUTE. It wasn’t some big relationship, I was among connections but we provided songs preferences, a dry (ahem devastatingly witty) love of life and we also both stayed in L.A. Emails gradually advanced to texts to haphazard phone calls. Again, perhaps not a huge romance, but absolutely one thing with possible.
He would ask us to go out, and then terminate. This cycle would duplicate, duplicate, perform. I’d be in his neighborhood and inquire him to generally meet for coffee/lunch but the guy constantly had programs. Exactly what a coincidence, correct? We never truly cared too much-I started a fresh union and just filed “D” out as a text/email pal and then he felt happy to only fade naturally as my personal commitment with my today sweetheart advanced.
Now, we are pals on Twitter and Twitter, and he drunk texts me personally ALL.THE.TIME. He emails me songs the guy thinks we’ll like (i love it) and he calls me personally once every couple of weeks. Gathering from the social media marketing stalking i have accomplished, he’s singleâ¦goes out everyday, doesn’t have a girlfriend or ten kidsâ¦and there is no reason wen’t hung
It is so confusing, because although Im very pleased within my commitment, We think about “D” a buddy. But they are we?
I get that possibly the guy just isn’t that interested in satisfying me personally face to face, and I’m ok thereupon. To tell the truth, I am not into him romantically in any way-I suggest, a man which takes three years to get one thing accomplished is certainly not attractive! If he’sn’t interested, or wasn’t interested 3 years agoâ¦why really does the guy keep calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking?
Possible Answers.
1. He’s shy/intimidated-this has been his reason before but I don’t know I buy it.
2. he could be perhaps not whom the guy is apparently on line. My just problem with this usually his fb seems to be filled with “real” existence friends and family, and then he always features brand-new pictures-I understand in which the guy operates, where he lives-whoa I seem like a creep. HOWEVER-we’ve all heard the Catfish tale, correct? Never may be also mindful! But i am talking about, his mommy clearly reviews on his articles, and I just can’t imagine she isn’t actual!
3. the guy likes having an appealing woman give him interest but he does not have to step-up on dish and actually “DO” any such thing. BINGO.
4. He’s just a weirdo.
I am leaning towards 3, and wanting it’s not 4. But now, it’s simply even more attraction than something else-who is actually my mystical buddy “D”? Hey D, you’re probably checking out thisâ¦since you stick to me on Twitter as well as!
Exactly what do you guys imagine? The reason why would you invest such in someone there is a constant want to satisfy? Help a lady out. ????